Prosody
From Jon's Wiki
Prosody is a small and fast XMPP daemon written in Lua. You can install it like this:
sudo apt-get install prosody
Then edit the config /etc/prosody/prosody.cfg.lua to make sure you have BOSH support, group rosters and compression enabled, and you probably want self-registration off:
modules_enabled = {
"compression";
"bosh";
"groups";
...
}
allow_registration = false;
bosh_ports = { 5280 };
...